Loving the Sedentary Life

Civilization begins when societies become sedentary. And although there is a lot to recommend active duty, and many pluses to its nomadic way of life, I’m glad to have a reasonably permanent, permanent address that is mine and not my parents.

We are doing home improvements. In fact, we just remodeled our basement using a basement finishing system with these guys. If you happen to be on Long Island and want to get your basement finished, tell them Candace sent you because I get a referral if you use them (which I do recommend)! I’ll post pics once I get the kids stuff down there.

We may even get to do a little landscaping.

I’ve started volunteering with the local historical society, which is a lot of fun for me.

At the same time, I look back fondly on the camaraderie of the Active Duty days. DH’s National Guard unit is spread out across the state. I’ve joined meet-up groups in the area but never seem to see the same people more than a handful of times. We go to the library, but again…different parents or often grandparents or nannies–people who are just at different stages in their lives.

So, busy, busy, busy! But little opportunity to form tight, meaningful friendships.

A few thoughts about An Army Wife’s Life…I’d like to make this site more about you, the readers. I find I spend a lot of time answering questions, in the comments or via e-mail, but have little about which to post. How can we transform this into a community site? I’ve bought a new domain, which I plan on unveiling, soon. And I’m considering adding a forum, FAQs, resource pages, etc.

Any thoughts?

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  1. Ashley says:

    Thanks for sharing your life with us. Greetings from one Army wife to another. :)

  2. Sha' says:

    Hi…My name is sha’ my husband left about a month ago..and it’s been soooo hard some days i dont think i will make it … how did you get though the hard times when your husband went to bas-training?

  3. Lara says:

    hi! i found you through google…i’m enjoying reading your posts. so nice to read things by like-minded women! :) i just started my blog…i’d love advice if you have some free time! maybe that would make a good blog post for your readers? :)


  4. kbug says:

    I’m glad you’re finally getting to enjoy life in the slow lane….. :) It sounds like you’re settling right in. It won’t be too long till Seth returns from the sand once again. His enlistment will be up later this year, too, and he plans to get out and try a normal life. We’re excited about that, because it means coming home, but at the same time, we’re concerned about employment opportunities. He has big plans, and we’re praying that everything works out for him…he deserves to be happy after two long deployments, dontcha think?

    Hope the kids are doing well and that your days remain quiet and peaceful. Take care, my friend…